Freud!

I chose to do this again! Click here for the original one!

Freud is a hoot. He's a whacky dude with horrible writing skills (Have you read Civilization and its Discontents?!) and fascinating ideas. In my Social Psychology class, we did a projection test and we're going to try it here so you can do it too, if you'd like. Freud is all about the unconscious and tapping into it, and that's precisely what this test aims to do.

How To Do It
1. Get comfortable. Lay down, close your eyes, kick off your (Sunday) shoes, whatever you need to do.
2. Breathe deeply. In..out..in...out
3. Focus on your breathing...breathe and relax for like 5 minutes.
4. Picture yourself on a cloud..a very light, fluffy, and comfortable cloud.
5. You're entering a new land...what does the land look like?
6. Get off the cloud and keep moving forward until you run into water--it can be any kind of water. What kind of water is it?
7. Continue to go forward until you see an animal. Describe the animal.
8. Keep going until you see a structure. What kind of structure is it? Describe it.
9. Continue forward..you see an object ahead. Again, you see an object ahead. It's a special object--what is it?



New Land

• What I saw: Marsh, kind of swampy, lot of dead grass, could be cool, but not really. 
• Freud says: Summation of current life...what I saw resembles my life now. 
• What that might mean (My interpretation with Freud's ideas): Ha, um. Life could be seen as cool, but it's not really. There is a lot of room to move about, but in no way is it actual growth. And if I stay too long I could get stuck (like swampy...)

Water

• What I saw: The marsh...so it was like damp and mushy, but not like a pond. There wasn't actual water, but could flood...
• Freud says: It resembles sex
• What It might mean: Not as insightful as my first time doing this! I guess it is..um. So basically the sex isn't happening but when it does, it..will. Hahaha. Hashtag married life. 

Animal

• What I saw: Zebra..wild, free, well groomed 
• Freud says: This is my alter ego
• What it might mean: Yay!!!

Structure 

• What I saw: A dilapidated shack with nothing around it. I tried to look for a different structure, but that was it. It was broken down.  
• Freud says: How I feel about society and my place in it.
• What it might mean: Wow, my views of the world have changed significantly. So...feeling like there's nothing that can be done, feeling alone, feeling like no point in fighting. Feeling like society is broken and unfixable. 

Special Object

• What I saw: An abstract piece of art. 
• Freud says: Resembles a future...could be mine or somebody else's, but usually your own. 
• What it might mean: Um..can't figure it out? Looks purposeless...like a waste of time.

Anyhoo, that is me, according to Freud round two. 

College Ashley was way more excited about her future that's for sure...

Love(ly): Come Here

Love(ly): Come Here: Come here. You. Stop. And come here.  I serve a God who tells me that every single day. We are called and summoned to come to the King. ...

Lies and Truths

Copied from Saturday, March 26, 2011 blog

Take me as you find me, all my fears and failures.


I am not perfect. I have fears and failures. I mess up, I listen to lies instead of truth sometimes.

Lie 1.
I am what I do, what I have, and what others say about me.

Lie 2.
My value is based on my performance.

Lie 3.
I have to be perfect.

And then I remember. Jesus will meet me right where I am at. He will take me as I am. With ALL of my screw ups. With ALL of my sin. With ALL of YOUR sin.


Savior, He can move the mountains
My God is mighty to save, He is mighty to save
Forever, Author of Salvation
He rose and conquered the grave
Jesus conquered the grave


Truth 1.
My identity is completely found in Christ.

Truth 2. 
Performance ≠ Value


Truth 3.
My God is perfect and Jesus paid it all when he died on the cross.

God's pursuit of me, of you, of us, is relentless, passionate, and purposeful.
He rejoices in our accomplishments, holds us in our brokenness, and empowers us in our inadequacies.  

Relentless

Relentless is my word of the year and it came from this song. God/Abba/Yahweh won't relent until He has it all. He passionately pursues us. He is relentless. His love is relentless.

And I will set Him as a seal. A seal is designed to join two things together to prevent them from coming apart or prevent anything from passing between them. Nothing separates us from the King, because Jesus changed everything.

I'm in constant awe of His glory and beauty and the fact that He desires me and died for me. And then conquered death and rose again. Hashtag that's my Jesus.

You won't relent until You have it all. 
My heart is yours. 

Come As You Are

I have been hooked onto this song for the past few weeks... "Come As You Are" by David Crowder Band.

Come out of sadness, wherever you've been...

...Lay down your burdens, lay down your shame

All who are broken, lift up your face.

Oh wanderer, come home

You're not too far. 

So lay down your hurt, lay down your heart

Come as you are.

It's such a beautiful reminder of the grace and love and forgiveness that Jesus gives us. He loves us, desires us, and wants us to be with Him. And no matter what we do/don't do, say/don't say, think/don't think, agree with/disagree with, screw up, or mess up, He says to come as we are. 

We don't have to wait to get our life all together before coming to Jesus. I think I forget this way too often. I get more focused on people's behaviors than I do on their hearts. I want them to get "fixed", "do better", and THEN they can come to Jesus. I think, "You're not worthy until you do x,y,z. Once you do that, maybe then the gospel can make a difference." 

What the filth? That's wrong, Ashley. I've got it backwards. Jesus first. Because Jesus changed everything. Yes, our thoughts and behaviors matter. But more importantly, our hearts. And I do think that when we choose Jesus, we yearn to have things aligned with Him. 

I need a constant reminder that all people are worthy. Right now, as they are. No matter who they are. No matter what they are doing. No matter what is going on in their life right now. They're still invited to the table of grace, they're still invited to know Jesus. 

I love the line "all who are broken, lift up your face". Because when we have shame, we naturally hide our faces. And this is a reminder that there is no shame with Jesus. Grace, love, forgiveness, mercifulness. We are invited to come as we are. Just as we are. Right now. Even with that dirty thought. Even with that foul language. Even with that alcohol abuse. We can come as we are, right now. Because Jesus paid it all and he loves us and He desperately wants us to experience the goodness of God. 

We're not worthy when we make good choices. We are worthy because Jesus said we are. So no matter who you are, what you just did, you're still invited to get to know Jesus. And that's just cool. 

2015

Everyone struggles writing the new year when dating something. (I would presume, anyways). Me...I don't just write the previous year..I sometimes subtract several years. The other day I wrote 2009. Another day I wrote 2005. Another day I wrote 2013 (did that twice). It's only January 11, so that shows you how often my problem is! I do this EVERY YEAR. I just start writing numbers or something...I don't know. Luckily it's all been in the 21st century, so I get the first two numbers right!

Anyways, new years calls for new years resolutions. Sort of. I don't ever make them. I actually hate goals, which is pretty much what new years resolutions are...
But, after the first week of new years, I typically decide to make some kind of list, which is what happened. So for 2015, here is my list.

Directly from my journal, dated with the correct year the first time. Booyah! 

• Prayer life
• Understanding what it truly means to come into the presence of God. Have honest communication to/with the King. To not get so unfocused or so busy. 
• Sharing the gospel
• I'm good at talking about Church, or about Jesus, but not necessarily truly of who He is or what He did and what it means. People know I'm a Christian, but not what that really means. 
• Be bold
• Do small things on a regular basis that challenge me. Don't always take the easy route. Don't always take the fast road. 
• Be uncomfortable
• Always be safe, but uncomfortable. Out of my comfort zone, out of my own world, outside of myself. 
• Yearn for Christ
• Shane and Shane lyrics: Lord, I want to yearn for you. I want to burn with passion. Only you. 
• This is my desire, my cry, my passion. 
• Relentless
• Word of the year. I don't want to relent, to stop pursuing. Always hold accountability for self/others. 

Uncomfortable

This life is not my own. I have really been reflecting on that and trying to wrestle with that and what it truly means. What does this really mean to not have my life as my own, to really give in to Christ?
The past year or so, I've come to realize one thing it means: to be uncomfortable. But that still leaves a lot of ambiguity.

Uncomfortable, like I may have to dress up often?
Uncomfortable, like I need to start eating fresh foods?
Uncomfortable, like I need to step out of my comfort zone?
Uncomfortable, like I need to be more vulnerable?
Uncomfortable, like I need to live below my means?
Uncomfortable, like I have to be okay with awkwardness?

There are many more possibilities of what "uncomfortable" means. And is it just one of these? A combination? All of them at different points in my life? I have no idea. But I do know I need to be uncomfortable. And that is, well, uncomfortable.